By:    Gary Chapman


The reason attitude is so important is that they affect my behavior and words.


I may not be able to control my environment: sickness, alcoholic spouse, teenager on drugs, aging parents, etc. but I am responsible for what I do within my  environment.


My attitude will greatly influence my behavior.


If I look for the positive in my  marriage, then I’m more likely to talk positively: give my spouse affirming words, and to do something that has the potential for enhancing life for both of us.


On the other hand, if I focus on the negative, I’m more likely to give my spouse critical, condemning words. This type of behavior will often result in one of two actions:

I’ll do things to hurt my spouse, or  I’ll withdraw and consider leaving my spouse.


Yes, my attitude affects my action!






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